Being Star Wars-ed?
“You’re focusing on the negative, Anakin. Be mindful of your thoughts.” – Obi Wan Kenobi
Over the past week or two, there have been numerous times when I’ve felt I’ve been in a Star Wars movie, being given advice about The Force. However, the advice given by a dear friend of mine and my counsellor has been about focusing on the positive, good times and things in my life. The counselling work has been about rebalancing my view of me and my life. This has involved condensing the negative perceptions of myself and my reactions and thereby reducing their significance and expanding on the positive perceptions with evidence to support it. The positive evidence, and focusing on the positive is not an easy thing for me to do. To acknowledge my successes, my achievements, the times I’ve been praised and gained acclaim, these are times that are easily brushed aside.
All the same, I have endeavoured to focus on the positive. I’ve made a concerted effort to write a list of good events, good feedback, things to be grateful for in my offline journal at the end of every day as I sit in bed before sleep. I do write about problems, confrontations and so on still so that I can reflect on them, work my way through them, and come to a balanced perspective on them, but I have been doing my best to write down a gratitude list. And even on the murkiest, darkest, trouble-beset days there are things to be grateful for.
Jedi philosophy, Buddhism, eastern religions … all seem to tie in, don’t they? I remember seeing the first Star Wars Film – Episode 4, A New Hope. It was the first time any kind of belief system had struck a chord within me, and though I knew the film was fantasy, the ideas would eventually ignite my own search for my personal brand of spirituality. And it turns out that things for me aren’t too different from the Force! Is this worrying? I think not!
That time had come around again – the renewal of the mobile phone contract with T-mobile. This time, I opted for a new phone rather than the £10 per month loyalty discount as the price for my tariff had plummeted considerably. Essentially, the new bill is £20 a month, compared to £26 with the discount or £36 without the discount! Brill! And what phone did I get. Well, the lovely chaps at T-mobile recommended the Motorola Defy to me, seeing as I have no idea about phones, am not interested in fashion statements and the like. I wanted something that would be durable, easy to use, and they told me I also would want a phone that would let me use my unlimited internet allowance too.
Well the phone arrived, I was totally bemused for a while, but within a few hours was comfortable with it, and now find it a marvellous thing to have with me! I certainly won’t get bored when waiting … I must remember to carry my glasses with me as I am getting eye-strain from looking at little letters on a little screen close to me. Oh the joys of being long-sighted!
My favourite app so far is Google Sky, which was free for me to download and one of the student teachers at school was most disgusted at that as he’d have to pay to get it on his iPhone! Result I think! I also downloaded, amongst other things, a nice meditation timer which I’ve yet to use but is likely to prove useful in the future. I’ve not got music on the phone yet, but there’s no rush for that either.
Having said that, the weather reports have been very useful given all the snow and traffic chaos that has ensued. And it’s been nice to cwtch up nice and warm in bed and email/message friends rather than get drafty-cool sat at the ‘puter.
So, I march on into a new realm of communication, wondering why it took me so long!
Snow – bleurgh!
I’ve already mentioned the snow. There’s not been too much of it around South Wales, generally, but enough to cause chaos at times with travelling. The main roads have mostly stayed pretty clear and I’ve found it perfectly fine to get around, though I’ve not been to the higher reaches of the Valleys.
A bonus has been a couple of days at school with few pupils in. Small classes, quiet, calm. It should be like that all the time! It’s amazing the difference it makes with just 5 or 6 out of each class – the mainstream class sizes then become around 25 to 27. I’m a lot calmer, the pupils are a lot calmer too. How on Earth class sizes have been allowed to creep up to such huge sizes. Some days I feel like I’m engaging more in crowd-control than actually teaching.
New career needed … ideas anyone?
The good thing about smaller classes and the snow is that it reminds me of how teaching can be, how it would benefit the pupils and the teachers.
As I type this blog entry, it is now raining here. I hope it washes away the snow and ice quick-sharp!
I’ve not been able to settle to do much art in the last couple of weeks. I seem to have been either tired or dashing around from place to place. But that’s ok. That’s how life is at times.
I have completed another auragraph for a lady, but I won’t post a picture of it until she’s had it and had a chance to show others it, if she wishes. It is personal for her. I have another two to do, and I hope to get one done later today.
Music and railways
Some musical events are coming up for me. Firstly, I’ll be playing my flute with Marcus (of Marcus Music, Newport, South Wales) and his wife, Pauline, at the Pontypool and Blaenavon Railway on the 19th December. Christmas carols/songs will be the order of the day. Pauline asked if I would go and play with them again this year, which was really nice of her to do so. That’s as long as I can get there given the weather conditions! I always enjoy playing with Marcus and Pauline – no pressure on me with them at all.
There’s also the school Carol Concert coming up, where I’ll be playing flute in the orchestra and singing alto in the choir. In years gone by it’s always been a stressful time for me and I often come down with tonsilitis, pharyngitis or some horrible form of ‘flu all brought about by the stress of performing in school, which goes back to my school days as a pupil! I wish I could find a way to get over this … I really do.
However, it’s always nice to play with other people, and I do wish I could do so more often. I’ve not found people to do that with … yet.
Things have taken an interesting turn concerning the railway and myself recently. The creaking door that was still open by just a nano-metre has finally been closed. To be honest, this is a relief to me. I can now walk away from there without any guilt and find somewhere else to volunteer my time where I can learn and also teach others things. One adventure has come to an end, many more await me. That is perhaps a sign of a more positive me about me! The only problem is getting me out there to take part in the adventures!